SANTA MONICA, CA: In this photo released June 5, Kristin Cavallari attends the 2022 MTV Movie & TV Awards: UNSCRIPTED at Barker Hangar in Santa Monica, California and aired June 5, 2022. (Photo by Matt Winkelmayer/WireImage )

Kristin Cavallari says marrying Jay Cutler was ‘toxic’ and ‘unhealthy’: ‘I wasn’t really happy’

Kristin Cavallari says her marriage to Jay Cutler was “toxic” and “unhealthy.” (Photo by Matt Winkelmayer/WireImage)

Kristin Cavallari talks about divorce and dating in a new interview, including how she won’t be dating old flame/new broadcast partner Stephen Colletti.

The reality star honestly answered all the questions in Call her father Podcasts, including the toughest—about what made her marriage to former NFL star Jay Cutler “toxic,” a word she’s used to describe it in the past.

“So that’s the only thing for me because I have three kids with him” very cavallari Alum started. “I’m very careful about what I say – if you and I don’t have microphones in front of us, I’ll tell you – but this is their dad and my Google services now and I just want to be very careful. My mom never said anything bad about my dad growing up [after they divorced] And I really respect that and I want to be that kind of mother.”

The 35-year-old replied, “It was toxic. Period. End of story. That’s all I want to say.”

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Kristin Cavallari and ex-husband Jay Cutler very cavallari. (Photo: Jake Giles Netter / E! Entertainment / NBCU Photo Bank / NBCUniversal via Getty Images)

Cavallari said that when she met Cutler, after-hills After a few years of party girls, “At that time in my life, it was perfect for me,” saying it was “easy and fun.” However, she also spoke of “red flags” for “deal-skipping” behaviors.

“I canceled [our] link [in 2011 for] She said, “Same reason for divorce. Same reasons I have to say. So I think if there’s anything to take away from that: you can’t ignore the red flags.”

They announced their separation in 2020, but they say it’s too late. “It took me a few years to pull the trigger to be honest with you,” she said.

Unhealthy founder James described the divorce as scary, sad but also “the best thing… with any relationship, you just have to realize what deal breaker for you… and I was really unhappy. That was the bottom line. In an unhealthy relationship So, for me, it’s not worth it. Also, I didn’t want my kids to think this was normal. I wanted them to see me happy and show me – not now, but eventually – with someone who really respects me and treats me the way I need to be treated. .

Since then, she’s back in the dating game. Despite the toxicity, she had some dates with her ex-husband. She also shared a kiss with ex-boyfriend Colletti in high school, like Laguna Beach Fans remember and co-present her new podcast, Back to the beach with Kristen and Stephen.

“I went to dinner with him about two years ago and we both kissed, and it was fun,” she said of meeting Colletti. “I was dating someone at the time – [and] Just to make up for lost time – so… it kind of didn’t turn out to be anything ‘more.

She claimed that was the end of it, saying, “Once I’m done with someone, I’m done. It’s like a light switch that flips and I can’t go back.”

She had a lot of fun dating stories, both from back in the day to the present. In one, she talked about going on a date two months ago with an “actor” she didn’t specify. The encounter went horribly wrong – in the middle of a crowded LA bar/restaurant.

“He was shutting down drinks,” she remembers. “We were sitting in the bar. It’s quite full. He got up to re-enact a stunt he did. [and] He accidentally ran up to the waiter and said, “Oh, I’m so sorry.” I was like, please sit on the f*** down. It creates all this turmoil amidst Laurel Hardware.”

She also talked about being chased by younger men.

“I’ve been attracted to a lot of men in their twenties,” she said. “I don’t know what it is about… You know I have three children, right?”

As a reminder, Cavallari said 30 is her minimum age, while a 45-year-old businessman not on social media is ideal for her. She referred to Alexander Skarsgård, from Big Little Liesas celebs crushed her.

Cavallari also said that a guy who is secure in himself is a must – and also someone who is okay with who she’s dating some guys who have gotten “a taste of fame and are losing their minds. They’re almost addicted to it, or really threatening… They’re really jealous and not Safety “.

She also wants him to make the first move – but no, we repeat, not via the DM.

“Where I am now in my life, I want to continue,” she said. “I want to be flirting. I want a guy to put in some effort. Because now guys – again, I’ve been with Jay for 10 years, this is my first time in the social dating media world – it’s like he’s showing up on the outside. I hate all A second of it. But guys are lazy like f*** now – and they’re always looking for the next best thing. So it’s like, No, I’m sorry, I don’t have time for your little bull *** anymore. Like let me see how serious you are and put in the effort. So No, I’m not making the first move.

“Now I’m very different dating,” she said. “I see it’s a mile away and it’s like, ‘No, I’m actually not going to take it.'”

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