“I’m a very resilient person,” Lovato, who emerged as a non-binary person in 2021, told the host. Tamara Zia when asked about their conscience. “Recently, I’ve been feeling more feminine, so I’ve adopted it again.”
Across social media, people have reacted to the news with both appreciation and confusion. Some, including Diya, have Criticize Media coverage of its lack of context around the nuances and intricacies of gender identity.
For the record: Demi Lovato didn’t say she’s giving them/them as her pronouns, she simply said she’s adding them. Please listen to the entire clip. Media friends, it is important to get this right.
– Tamara Zia (@tamaradhia) August 2, 2022
While the language of some outlets indicated that Lovato had “returned” As for her pronouns, experts say it’s common for trans and non-binary people to use multiple and interchange pronouns throughout their sexual journey.
“Often, people may navigate through different gender identities, different language they use or different pronouns, and that doesn’t necessarily mean they aren’t their true selves,” said Sabra Katz-Wise, an assistant professor of teens. / Adult Medicine at Boston Children’s Hospital. “It’s just part of the larger gender journey that people are taking.”
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In fact, many on social media reinforced this idea and hoped that Lovato’s story would help normalize this experience: “This is a reminder that sex and sexuality can be totally flexible and that’s okay!” single user Wrote on Twitter.
Many criticized the media’s portrayal of the news. “The media’s reaction to Demi Lovato’s use of the pronouns he/them is the reason I wish I was stuck with them”, another user Wrote. “The second time I turned it on, everyone stopped using it.”
Aaron Williams, 21, has used their/them pronouns for over a year. But They said it looked like their sexual journey had just begun.
“I’ve only become more understanding and aware of gender as a social construct in just the past few years,” said Williams, who lives in Port Talbot, Wales. “Being autistic, most of us don’t feel that we can relate to social norms and I’ve realized that I don’t relate to binary gender norms. It’s advanced work.”
Sierra “Chichi” White, a mental health counselor and Twitch Streamer in Colorado Springs, said their journey began during childhood after they struggled to connect with female signs — particularly as a black girl in a non-black community. They said, “My idea of femininity was very different from that of those around me.”
“Throughout my life, I’ve been very comfortable with any pronouns most of the time,” White added. “And then I decided to just use their pronouns/pronouns exclusively and recognize that they’re good.”
For White, 26, it makes sense that gender identity and/or pronouns change over time.
“If you’re constantly challenged with your ideas or you’re meeting new people who might help you change or better build your own idea of what sex means over time, that’s naturally going to change,” White said. “I don’t know a lot of people who haven’t tried pronouns.”
According to data released by the Pew Research Center in June, about 1.6 percent of the US population identifies as trans or nonbinary. The survey also found that young people are the most likely to learn about this method.
The study indicates that 5 percent of young people identify as transgender or non-binary
Katz Wise, whose research examines sexual orientation, gender identity development, and sexual fluidity, reflects White’s view of how societies and environmental factors affect identity. “There are a lot of contextual factors that seem to be associated with people experiencing these changes,” she said. “A lot of them are about meeting new people [and] Recognize new terms that they have not been exposed to before.”
Amid an onslaught of legislation targeting transgender and gay people, many in the LGBTQ community in particular have been Beware of narratives that can fuel stigmas and misconceptions about sexual and erotic experiences.
“I think there’s a real fear of transgender and non-binary rights being removed if there’s a suggestion that gender can be fluid because people might say, ‘Well, if it’s fluid and you can change it, why not just be equal?” Katz-Wise said. “But in fact, people don’t usually describe it because they have made that change themselves, rather they have experienced it happening to them.”
Since coming out as non-binary in May 2021, Lovato has been open about anticipating such changes, telling 19th at the time that her gender identity would be a “forever” journey. She has also said that she identifies as gay and sexual.
“There may be a time when I identify as non-binary and gender incompatible throughout my life. Or perhaps there will be a period of time when I get older I identify as a woman.” “I don’t know what that sounds like, but to me, in the moment right now, that’s how I define it.”
In recent years, other celebrities have emerged as non-binary or transgender. In 2019, singer Sam Smith changed their pronouns to they/them. In 2020, actor Elliot Page appeared as a transgender and non-binary. And this year, singer Janelle Mooney confirmed that she’s not bi, and told the Los Angeles Times that she’ll use both their pronouns and their pronouns.
White is grateful for their stories: “It means a lot to me personally as a transgender and non-binary person because it helps normalize conversations about sexuality and fluidity.”
“It is very important for our societies to not only have allies, but to see representation,” they said. “If it wasn’t for social media and the change in conversation in popular culture, I might not know these labels exist.”